The Enigma called Women

Girls!!!!!!!!
The word itself is an enigma.In my twenty one years of existence,I've not been able to understand them & i doubt if I'll ever.I guess,a lifetime is not enough!What really amazes me is that no one be it old or young,rich or poor,dumb or smart has been able to avert their charm.
Now,am certainly not a believer in the fact that "Women are the pathway to hell" but then am not of those Pro-women types.It most be noted that am a believer in the theories of widow remarriage,Equal inheritance rights etc.
Of lately,I've been trying ,albeit in a clandestine manner, to decipher the complexities of a woman's mind.
What is it that really attracts man towards a woman?
Beauty...ah well,it does the job but then not in all the cases.I guess,its something more than that.
I've been lucky enough to have come across women of all types & sizes(No pun intended);Gorgeous beauties,Hardcore Feminists,Ugly super brains,Dumb beauties,demure types & of course the Flirtatious coquettes.Their viewpoints might differ,so be their nature but one feature is common i.e. they are complex & beyond the analytical limit of an ordinary man.
Now lets come to the point.The other day i happened to glance upon the scrapbook of a friend of the fairer sex.Needless to say she is a beautiful girl in her early twenties.I was indeed surprised!!!!
Why?
Firstly,her friend list had some 500 friends & that is the miracle of these social networking sites.Some of the guys in her friend list would never have had the courage to talk to her, leave alone friendship!But,thanks to internet & the website,it worked for them.
Secondly,to my utter surprise i found scraps sweetened with words like "Dear","Honey","Sweety" from persons whom she might never have seen in person.One such scrap was from a school senior who happened to be a topper & is currently studying in one of the premier IITs of the country.Now whats indeed surprising is that this guy,as far as i remember,was a shy guy & he hardly talked to girls of his batch;forget juniors.Is it the IIT after-effect?a case of acute desperation syndrome courtesy skewed sex-ratio of the IITs.
Coming back to the girl,there was also a scrap from a batchmate who was trying to win her trust & gain an entry into her coveted friend list through some common male acquaintances.Name dropping you know....
Agreed,she was a very popular girl in the school & well known too for her extra-curricular exploits.But,certain things are difficult to digest.
Moreover she has been going around with a guy for last 2 years & almost everyone knows that.So,it makes the matter even more complicated.
Everyday,we have somebody or the other lambasting the government for a pathetic sex-ratio of 933:1000.I used to wonder if it would result in addition of a few more to the already burgeoning Gay population.Alas,i was wrong.We are Indians after all & then everything is fair in Love & War.
"Jo Jeeta Wohi Sikandar".Understood?I couldn't.
CAN ANYONE HELP ME OUT?